It doesn’t matter how happy you are in other aspects of your relationship. Your sex life can still suffer. It’s not that you don’t love your partner. It’s not even that you don’t find them attractive, but sex can become boring and lackluster, and when that happens, it’s just not fun anymore. You might find you (and they) start making excuses not to bother, and you just fall out of the habit of being intimate with one another.
This is not something that needs to happen, and it shouldn’t happen either. We all deserve to have a great sex life. With that in mind, if you’ve found that yours is diminishing, here are some ways to spice things up and put the spark back in your relationship.
Sex toys can add a magical sparkle to any sex life, and there are toys to suit everyone. It’s fun not just to use them, but to buy them too. Look online and visit the store you think will offer the best toys for your relationship and enjoyment and spend time browsing the possibilities. That could be enough to set things aflame, and if you order some as well, the anticipation of them arriving, not to mention when they actually get to you, can be highly stimulating.
There are dozens of different options, and it might be that you amass quite the collection. Or perhaps you find one toy that you both love and stick with that. In either case, adding something to the proceedings can often be a great idea and make things a lot hotter in the bedroom.
Sex is not just about the act itself but about the lead-up and anticipation of it. Although spontaneous sex can be fun, there is something about the tease that sets hearts – and other body parts – aflame. This is where lingerie comes in. Put some on and let your partner know you’re wearing it, either by telling them outright or showing them a peek. This will put the image in their mind and make them all the more excited.
Not only is this great for your partner, but you can enjoy the benefits too. Wearing lingerie is thrilling, especially when you know it’s driving your other half wild. By the time you get to bed – or anywhere private – you’ll be unable to keep your hands off one another.
Sex shouldn’t be a serious business. When you think about it, it’s actually a very strange and almost comical situation anyway. So why not inject some humor into it and enjoy some sex games?
The term ‘sex games’ is a broad one. It could be anything from strip poker to light bondage, depending on your own proclivities and how you’re feeling. Work this out in advance and see what kind of game you want to play. The key thing is to enjoy yourself; take things too seriously, and you’ll be too tense and stressed to have much fun at all.